Murphy's Law of Running Errands with Children: on a day when you absolutely have to leave the house for some type of errand, ie. doctor's appointment, groceries because your cupboards are bare or you forgot an important ingredient, library because your books or videos are overdue, any other essential errand that needs to be run, guaranteed, it will be pouring rain.
I can name probably at least three situations in the last two months where I've had to leave the house with all three kids, and it has been pouring rain. I'm pretty sure the examples I listed were the exact reasons as well. Doctor's appointment, essential groceries, and library books being overdue.
Case in point, today, yet again, I had plans to head out to the library this morning with the kiddos (not as essential of a visit because I returned the videos earlier this week and the books aren't due till next week), but the kids always like having videos in the house instead of always watching TV (and I don't mind being a little more selective in their entertainment choices). Of course, it is raining.
And is it ever raining. The kind of rain where I'm going to get really annoyed at how slowly my kids get into the van because even though they have umbrellas and can just hop in with relative dryness, my umbrella is broken, and I'll have to stand there with my backside out in the elements whilst I buckle them all into their seats. Ick. Time to rethink the white t-shirt I picked out to wear this morning.
And of course, I was lazy last night and didn't put out the garbage and recycling. I said to myself, "Oh, I'll just do it in the morning." Boy was that dumb. Now I have to go put it out in the rain. *sigh* That's what I get for procrastinating...
Saturday, September 08, 2012
Tuesday, September 04, 2012
Hello Mornings
I've been doing a new thing with my mornings. It's called the Hello Mornings challenge, and basically, you make a point of waking up early, and you do morning quiet time, plan your day, and theoretically, exercise before everyone else gets up. Given the early hour that my children wake, this means I have to get up by 5:45 just to fit in my Bible study and make a quick list of what we're going to do in the day. At this stage in life, exercise is just not going to happen. That would mean I'd have to get up by 5:00, and since I'm still waking up once or twice with Nathan in the night, that is an unrealistic goal. As it is, 5:45 is pretty rough.
I've done pretty well with the 5:45 so far. Some mornings, I actually get 20 min to half an hour before any of the kids get up. Other mornings, one or more are up about 5 min after the alarm, and one morning, Reuben and Kaylee decided to get up at 5:30, even before the alarm went off -- not sure what happened that day.
In just two short weeks of doing this, I've now come to really appreciate the few minutes of quiet that I get before everyone else wakes up. It helps me to feel more intentional about my day and not just reacting in the moments.
Of course, with Reuben starting school tomorrow, morning routines will change yet again. But hopefully, if I can stick with getting up early, it will be a fairly smooth transition.
Oh life and it's seasons...
I've done pretty well with the 5:45 so far. Some mornings, I actually get 20 min to half an hour before any of the kids get up. Other mornings, one or more are up about 5 min after the alarm, and one morning, Reuben and Kaylee decided to get up at 5:30, even before the alarm went off -- not sure what happened that day.
In just two short weeks of doing this, I've now come to really appreciate the few minutes of quiet that I get before everyone else wakes up. It helps me to feel more intentional about my day and not just reacting in the moments.
Of course, with Reuben starting school tomorrow, morning routines will change yet again. But hopefully, if I can stick with getting up early, it will be a fairly smooth transition.
Oh life and it's seasons...
Monday, August 13, 2012
The Big, Fat Caterpillar
My mum is obsessed with Eric Carle books. (Sorry, Mum, it's true.) Not that this is a bad thing. It just means that my kids have received a number of Eric Carle books over the years, and we've amassed quite a collection. They happen to be great books for kids. A favourite of Reuben's has always been "The Very Hungry Caterpillar", and he actually had the book memorized at a very young age. I'm not sure if he still does; maybe one of these days I'll pull it out again and find out.
Anyway, I digress. Today, I found the very hungry caterpillar in my garden. Except, he was not a tiny and very hungry caterpillar. He was a big, fat caterpillar.
See for yourself...
Apparently, instead of just eating through one nice, green leaf, he decided to eat through a whole bunch of nice green leaves, like the ones on my tomato plants. And he took a few bites out of some nice red tomatoes as well...
I don't know how well you can see in this picture, but this is a tomato plant that's had all of it's leaves eaten off. I now have the answer as to what's plaguing my tomato plants.
Suffice to say, it gave me a bit of a jolt when I was out picking tomatoes this afternoon and reached down to lift up the tomato plant and grabbed that not-so-little guy. I mean, I've seen some caterpillars in my life, but none quite like this one, and I've certainly never touched any like this. It gives me the creepy-crawlies just thinking about it...
In other news, the basil and parsley I planted in one of my barrels has taken over. Take a look:
I really need to get around to making some more of the Herbed Garlic Butter I made last year. And more bruschetta. And anything else I can think of that needs basil. If anyone wants some fresh basil, I've got more than enough to share. Let me know...
Anyway, I digress. Today, I found the very hungry caterpillar in my garden. Except, he was not a tiny and very hungry caterpillar. He was a big, fat caterpillar.
See for yourself...
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| The Big, Fat Caterpillar |
I don't know how well you can see in this picture, but this is a tomato plant that's had all of it's leaves eaten off. I now have the answer as to what's plaguing my tomato plants.
Suffice to say, it gave me a bit of a jolt when I was out picking tomatoes this afternoon and reached down to lift up the tomato plant and grabbed that not-so-little guy. I mean, I've seen some caterpillars in my life, but none quite like this one, and I've certainly never touched any like this. It gives me the creepy-crawlies just thinking about it...
In other news, the basil and parsley I planted in one of my barrels has taken over. Take a look:
I really need to get around to making some more of the Herbed Garlic Butter I made last year. And more bruschetta. And anything else I can think of that needs basil. If anyone wants some fresh basil, I've got more than enough to share. Let me know...
Friday, August 10, 2012
Life goes too fast
It's amazing how time flies. I had so many good intentions to write posts more frequently, and then somehow, I end up busy, and before I know it, it's been two weeks since my last post.
Nathan is over six weeks old already. When all the stars align, (which for a baby means that he's just woken up and isn't tired, he's been fed and has a clean diaper), you just might get lucky and coax a smile out of him. It's pretty doggone cute. Reuben and Kaylee seem to think that any facial expression that isn't crying is a smile, and Reuben frequently makes comments about Nathan's various baby noises that Nathan has just said something "like a real human". Kids are hilarious, especially with babies.
Reuben starts school in four weeks. I assume anyway. We haven't had the official word yet if the SK students start right on time with everyone else or if they stagger them in or how that all works. It's a little mind-blowing that my little boy is heading off to school. It's a bittersweet moment when I actually manage to find the time to sit and think about it, which isn't often. (In fact, most of the time I forget it's happening.)
Am I supposed to be excited that it won't be my job to keep him entertained anymore? But at the same time, I know that school changes people, and he's going to be influenced by so much more than just the things in our little home, and wow, I am so grateful that we're sending him to a Christian school so I at least have that reassurance behind what those influences are going to be.
I find myself wanting to do more things one on one with each of the kids, but struggling with such an immense lack of time and opportunity because they all need me to be there all the time. I go grocery shopping with just Kaylee and me pretty regularly, but Reuben hates getting groceries, so I need to find something to do with just him and me, hopefully before school starts. I'm thinking maybe I just might be able to convince him to come shopping if I tell him it's for his school supplies and bribe him with Tim Horton's when we're finished.
Anyway, it's now two hours since I typed this post up, and I somehow managed to get myself so distracted that I didn't just wrap this up and hit "Publish". So that's what I'm doing now...
Nathan is over six weeks old already. When all the stars align, (which for a baby means that he's just woken up and isn't tired, he's been fed and has a clean diaper), you just might get lucky and coax a smile out of him. It's pretty doggone cute. Reuben and Kaylee seem to think that any facial expression that isn't crying is a smile, and Reuben frequently makes comments about Nathan's various baby noises that Nathan has just said something "like a real human". Kids are hilarious, especially with babies.
Reuben starts school in four weeks. I assume anyway. We haven't had the official word yet if the SK students start right on time with everyone else or if they stagger them in or how that all works. It's a little mind-blowing that my little boy is heading off to school. It's a bittersweet moment when I actually manage to find the time to sit and think about it, which isn't often. (In fact, most of the time I forget it's happening.)
Am I supposed to be excited that it won't be my job to keep him entertained anymore? But at the same time, I know that school changes people, and he's going to be influenced by so much more than just the things in our little home, and wow, I am so grateful that we're sending him to a Christian school so I at least have that reassurance behind what those influences are going to be.
I find myself wanting to do more things one on one with each of the kids, but struggling with such an immense lack of time and opportunity because they all need me to be there all the time. I go grocery shopping with just Kaylee and me pretty regularly, but Reuben hates getting groceries, so I need to find something to do with just him and me, hopefully before school starts. I'm thinking maybe I just might be able to convince him to come shopping if I tell him it's for his school supplies and bribe him with Tim Horton's when we're finished.
Anyway, it's now two hours since I typed this post up, and I somehow managed to get myself so distracted that I didn't just wrap this up and hit "Publish". So that's what I'm doing now...
Wednesday, July 25, 2012
Because I need a nap more than you need a real post
I wanted to write a good post tonight. All the elements of a great time for writing are in place: the kids are sleeping (Nathan in his Moses basket on the couch beside me), I've got some classical music playing on the TV (to help Nathan sleep), I've got wine on the counter that is calling for me to pour a glass, and Tim won't be home from work for another hour.
But I am so very, very tired. I'd forgotten how tiring it is to be woken up multiple time in the night to feed an infant, even if I do feed that infant while lying down and usually doze off while doing so. I look forward to the days when Nathan gets down to that one 4AM feeding instead of maybe doing one long stretch during the evening and then being up every 3 hours till morning.
So instead of a nice post, you get this very boring little blurb of me telling me you're not getting a real post tonight.
And I'm going to lay down on the couch and take a nap until Tim gets home.
But I am so very, very tired. I'd forgotten how tiring it is to be woken up multiple time in the night to feed an infant, even if I do feed that infant while lying down and usually doze off while doing so. I look forward to the days when Nathan gets down to that one 4AM feeding instead of maybe doing one long stretch during the evening and then being up every 3 hours till morning.
So instead of a nice post, you get this very boring little blurb of me telling me you're not getting a real post tonight.
And I'm going to lay down on the couch and take a nap until Tim gets home.
Tuesday, July 24, 2012
His plan, not mine
One week before Nathan was born, I was transferred from midwife care to the care of an OB. My platelets tend to run low while I'm pregnant, which puts me at a higher risk for postpartum hemorhage. We'd been consulting with the OB over the past eight months, but in my last month of pregnancy, the numbers dropped low enough that the official transfer became necessary, as well as a consult with a hematologist (doctor specializing in blood disorders).
Unfortunately, I found out about the transfer when my midwife called me on my cell phone as I was sitting in the OB's office for a routine update appointment. Her timing could have been a little better. I was pregnant and hormonal; how else could I react but with tears? I ended up crying my way through the appointment, trying to wrap my head around how my labour and delivery experience was about to change now that I was under the care of an OB. I now hadn't the faintest idea what to expect, nor did I even really know what to do. Having been with midwives for the births of our first two children, I wasn't used to the whole concept of having to deal with hospital staff and specifying my wishes for a natural birth and all that stuff. This post isn't really about all that, but let me just say that in the end, the experience really is completely different, and I was very thankful that in the end I was able to have my midwife there at the hospital for supportive care.
Back to the point. I went home from the appointment that day feeling pretty miserable and lost. All the expectations that I'd had for the birth of our third child were changing. I felt completely thrown for a loop and didn't know how to wrap my head around what was going to happen now. My plans had to change, and I was having a hard time accepting that fact.
And then God came and reminded me of the truth: yes, my plans had to change, but His plans didn't. This was His plan all along, and His plans are always for my good. He knew this was going to happen the whole time, even if I didn't. He is in control, even when I feel like life is spinning around me.
I found myself repeating that phrase to myself frequently over the next week before Nathan was born, "His plan, not mine." I'll be honest and say that as I look back on the whole experience, I don't really know what the good was in having to be switched to an OB as Nathan's labour and delivery was about as uncomplicated as it gets.
Or then again, maybe the whole point was to learn this valuable lesson, that we can plan our lives all we want, but we are not the ones in control; it's God who plans our lives, and He always knows what to expect, even when we don't.
Unfortunately, I found out about the transfer when my midwife called me on my cell phone as I was sitting in the OB's office for a routine update appointment. Her timing could have been a little better. I was pregnant and hormonal; how else could I react but with tears? I ended up crying my way through the appointment, trying to wrap my head around how my labour and delivery experience was about to change now that I was under the care of an OB. I now hadn't the faintest idea what to expect, nor did I even really know what to do. Having been with midwives for the births of our first two children, I wasn't used to the whole concept of having to deal with hospital staff and specifying my wishes for a natural birth and all that stuff. This post isn't really about all that, but let me just say that in the end, the experience really is completely different, and I was very thankful that in the end I was able to have my midwife there at the hospital for supportive care.
Back to the point. I went home from the appointment that day feeling pretty miserable and lost. All the expectations that I'd had for the birth of our third child were changing. I felt completely thrown for a loop and didn't know how to wrap my head around what was going to happen now. My plans had to change, and I was having a hard time accepting that fact.
And then God came and reminded me of the truth: yes, my plans had to change, but His plans didn't. This was His plan all along, and His plans are always for my good. He knew this was going to happen the whole time, even if I didn't. He is in control, even when I feel like life is spinning around me.
I found myself repeating that phrase to myself frequently over the next week before Nathan was born, "His plan, not mine." I'll be honest and say that as I look back on the whole experience, I don't really know what the good was in having to be switched to an OB as Nathan's labour and delivery was about as uncomplicated as it gets.
Or then again, maybe the whole point was to learn this valuable lesson, that we can plan our lives all we want, but we are not the ones in control; it's God who plans our lives, and He always knows what to expect, even when we don't.
Saturday, July 14, 2012
My eReader
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| This is my Kobo. |
I know. It's almost a sacrilege. I actually bought an eReader. But before you take me out back and read me the riot act for doing something so crazy, hear me out.
When you have kids, an eReader is actually extremely handy. As in, I can now borrow books from the library without leaving my house. Have you ever tried browsing the library with two small children in tow? And I mean literally in tow. The last time I tried to find a book for myself at the library, Reuben and Kaylee decided it would be a fun time to pretend that they were my new shoes. So they latched themselves onto my legs, and I had to try and walk with two cling-ons attached. Not my idea of how to find a book at the library. With my new eReader, I don't have to do this anymore. I can sit on my couch with my laptop and browse the library from the comfort of my living room. It's wonderful.
Also, when you are nursing an infant, it is much easier to read when you don't need a second hand free to turn pages. In fact, I don't even have to hold the book at all. I can just leave the Kobo on my leg or on the arm of the chair or next to me on the couch and tap on it occasionally to turn the page. No more trying to awkwardly turn a page while holding a baby. No more worrying about losing my spot when I put the book down because the pages are going to flip over without me holding my spot or putting in a bookmark. Very, very handy.
Anyway, I'm not trying to make you all go out and buy yourselves eReaders. In fact, I have no intention of changing my book purchasing habits just because I have one. There's still nothing quite like the smell of a new book, and reading a book with the actual pages in your hands is a completely different experience from reading it on an eReader. Besides which, there are many books that don't come in e-format. But at this stage in my life, I have a definite appreciation for this new technology, and I'm thrilled with my purchase so far.
Friday, July 13, 2012
Some thoughts
I have a few moments to myself, so I thought I'd take the time to see if I can get a blog post out. Nathan is sitting quietly beside me in his bouncy chair, and the other two kids are occupied playing with two older children from our church that have started coming over for a few hours on occasional afternoons. It's a great arrangement that the kids and I both love because they get somebody to play with, and I don't have to try to keep them entertained during that dead time between nap and supper.
I'm discovering a couple of things. One, I'm really feeling the itch to get back into blogging more regularly again. I've had a couple of ideas for posts, some from when I was pregnant and just didn't get around to writing and some now that life is starting to go back to normal. Except that's one of the other things that I'm discovering: life has to have a new normal now that there's an infant in the house.
Which leads to another discovery: it's hard to create a normal routine with an infant and two other children. I know that this shouldn't really come as a surprise, and it doesn't really. I think I'm just feeling the frustration of enjoying having some energy back now that I'm no longer pregnant, so I want to be doing so many different things, but feeling like I can't because I'm tied down to an infant schedule and still trying to deal with some serious sleep deprivation, so I need to try to conserve the energy I do have.
For example, I wish I could get back to the morning routine of getting up with the kids to read blogs and write posts, but for some reason, I feel like every minute of my mornings is now taken up with just getting everybody dressed and fed. And school hasn't even started yet! I'm worried about how much more hectic mornings are going to get when I have to actually have the kids fed and dressed in time to get Reuben on the bus. Anyway, we'll cross that bridge when we get to it, and hopefully I'll have some kind of better morning routine figured out by then.
But it does mean that I also don't get the blogging time in that I wish I could, and I'm not so sure it would work to switch to writing in the evenings because by the time the kids are in bed, all I want to do is crash on the couch and veg for a little while before I go to bed myself, usually at a ridiculously early hour in anticipation of being woken every three hours (or more frequently) to feed the bottomless pit that is a two-week-old infant.
Actually, even writing this post now, at suppertime, feels a little strange. But maybe this needs to be the new normal?
Part of the problem is that since I've been out of the blogging routine for so long, I almost don't know where to start with the posts, so I'm hoping that by just writing this now, it will pave the way for more posts, and maybe I just need to sit down at some point and write out for myself all the post ideas I have and plan out a bit when I might try to write them. Ooh, planning posts... Will I? Will I? Will it actually happen? We will have to wait and see...
I'm discovering a couple of things. One, I'm really feeling the itch to get back into blogging more regularly again. I've had a couple of ideas for posts, some from when I was pregnant and just didn't get around to writing and some now that life is starting to go back to normal. Except that's one of the other things that I'm discovering: life has to have a new normal now that there's an infant in the house.
Which leads to another discovery: it's hard to create a normal routine with an infant and two other children. I know that this shouldn't really come as a surprise, and it doesn't really. I think I'm just feeling the frustration of enjoying having some energy back now that I'm no longer pregnant, so I want to be doing so many different things, but feeling like I can't because I'm tied down to an infant schedule and still trying to deal with some serious sleep deprivation, so I need to try to conserve the energy I do have.
For example, I wish I could get back to the morning routine of getting up with the kids to read blogs and write posts, but for some reason, I feel like every minute of my mornings is now taken up with just getting everybody dressed and fed. And school hasn't even started yet! I'm worried about how much more hectic mornings are going to get when I have to actually have the kids fed and dressed in time to get Reuben on the bus. Anyway, we'll cross that bridge when we get to it, and hopefully I'll have some kind of better morning routine figured out by then.
But it does mean that I also don't get the blogging time in that I wish I could, and I'm not so sure it would work to switch to writing in the evenings because by the time the kids are in bed, all I want to do is crash on the couch and veg for a little while before I go to bed myself, usually at a ridiculously early hour in anticipation of being woken every three hours (or more frequently) to feed the bottomless pit that is a two-week-old infant.
Actually, even writing this post now, at suppertime, feels a little strange. But maybe this needs to be the new normal?
Part of the problem is that since I've been out of the blogging routine for so long, I almost don't know where to start with the posts, so I'm hoping that by just writing this now, it will pave the way for more posts, and maybe I just need to sit down at some point and write out for myself all the post ideas I have and plan out a bit when I might try to write them. Ooh, planning posts... Will I? Will I? Will it actually happen? We will have to wait and see...
Sunday, July 08, 2012
Introducing...
...Nathan John, born on Tuesday, June 26, 2012 at 10:40pm.
He weighed 6lb 15oz and was 20.5cm long. I got the little baby I was hoping for. :) Reuben was over 8lb, and Kaylee was 10lb; this is a huge adjustment for us. Everything with the labour and delivery went well, even though I'd been switched to OB care in my 38th week due to concerns about my platelet levels. My midwife was still present at the hospital, and I was so grateful for her help in getting me off the ridiculous monitors that the hospital seems to think is necessary. The OB resident that day seemed to think I needed to be on the monitors constantly, and therefore needed to be stuck in the hospital bed, not fun when you're trying to go naturally. I can see why so many women decide to have epidurals if that's the kind of stuff they have to put up with. Luckily, the attending OB overrode that decision, but the nurse decided not to actually take the monitors off of me even when they weren't keeping track of things. My midwife quickly put things to right when she got there, and things went much more smoothly from that point on. An hour and a half after being admitted, Nathan was born!
We spent that first night in the hospital, and then my sister Laura brought Reuben and Kaylee in to visit us the next day. They are super excited to have the baby brother they were hoping for.
We are all settling in nicely at home now. Tim went back to work this week, and I think I managed fairly well with just me and the three kids. Nathan seems to sleep better in the day than at night, and his nap doesn't really match up with Kaylee's, so I'm pretty sleep-deprived at this point, but otherwise, I'm starting to feel a bit like my pre-pregnant self again. That said, I have every intention of nursing Nathan for at least a year, so I'm not sure how long my brain will be stuck in that particular fog, but I'm quite certain it won't be nearly as bad as pregnancy brain. I am hoping to get back into posting a little more regularly, (when/if I can find the time), and I can already feel the creative juices slowly starting to flow again. And then again, that could be due to my renewed relationship with that faithful friend, my morning cup of coffee. Mmm, coffee. How I have missed thee!
Anyway, that's all for now.
We spent that first night in the hospital, and then my sister Laura brought Reuben and Kaylee in to visit us the next day. They are super excited to have the baby brother they were hoping for.
We are all settling in nicely at home now. Tim went back to work this week, and I think I managed fairly well with just me and the three kids. Nathan seems to sleep better in the day than at night, and his nap doesn't really match up with Kaylee's, so I'm pretty sleep-deprived at this point, but otherwise, I'm starting to feel a bit like my pre-pregnant self again. That said, I have every intention of nursing Nathan for at least a year, so I'm not sure how long my brain will be stuck in that particular fog, but I'm quite certain it won't be nearly as bad as pregnancy brain. I am hoping to get back into posting a little more regularly, (when/if I can find the time), and I can already feel the creative juices slowly starting to flow again. And then again, that could be due to my renewed relationship with that faithful friend, my morning cup of coffee. Mmm, coffee. How I have missed thee!
Anyway, that's all for now.
Wednesday, June 06, 2012
A boring update post
Reuben woke me up this morning shortly before six. I sent him back to bed because it was too early to get up, and he was actually doing really well with that, but of course, I could no longer get back to sleep. I lay there for a little while with my mind spinning, until I finally decided to just get up and go downstairs because maybe, just maybe, with my brain spinning this quickly I just might manage to get a blog post out this morning.
May was a busy month for us. Between my sister's wedding, the annual May long weekend trek to Waterloo for the All Ontario Youth Convention and bi-weekly midwife appointments, I barely had time to sit down and breathe. I think even my kids noticed that I was a little more stressed than usual.
But even though it was busy, and at times stressful, it was a good month with lots of time spent with family and friends. I am glad, though, that things have slowed down, and I can spend the next four weeks or so preparing for this new baby that's about to join our family.
For the most part, I've been feeling good, and I'm thankful that this baby seems to be smaller than Kaylee was. Watch it prove me wrong and come out over 10 pounds... I'm officially 36 weeks, which means I start having weekly midwife appointments. Sometimes it's hard to believe we're already at that point. Thankfully, most of my appointments are on Tuesdays when Tim is home, so he can either come with me with the kids or stay home with them. I discovered early on that it does not work for me to take the kids to appointments by myself. I can't entertain them and try to focus on the appointment at the same time.
I've also discovered that I get really sick of looking for babysitters. This past month it has felt like there's always something going on that I need to locate childcare for, and I'm really tired of always trying to think of who to call. I did find a student that lives relatively close by that I can pay to babysit for a change, but it's a bit of a hassle to have to pick her up if Tim is gone as I then have to drag this kids with me to get her and bring her home.
Anyway, enough of all that. I think my brain has finally slowed down a little at least. I don't know how long it will be until you get another post. With my track record, my next words to you may be a birth announcement....!!
May was a busy month for us. Between my sister's wedding, the annual May long weekend trek to Waterloo for the All Ontario Youth Convention and bi-weekly midwife appointments, I barely had time to sit down and breathe. I think even my kids noticed that I was a little more stressed than usual.
But even though it was busy, and at times stressful, it was a good month with lots of time spent with family and friends. I am glad, though, that things have slowed down, and I can spend the next four weeks or so preparing for this new baby that's about to join our family.
For the most part, I've been feeling good, and I'm thankful that this baby seems to be smaller than Kaylee was. Watch it prove me wrong and come out over 10 pounds... I'm officially 36 weeks, which means I start having weekly midwife appointments. Sometimes it's hard to believe we're already at that point. Thankfully, most of my appointments are on Tuesdays when Tim is home, so he can either come with me with the kids or stay home with them. I discovered early on that it does not work for me to take the kids to appointments by myself. I can't entertain them and try to focus on the appointment at the same time.
I've also discovered that I get really sick of looking for babysitters. This past month it has felt like there's always something going on that I need to locate childcare for, and I'm really tired of always trying to think of who to call. I did find a student that lives relatively close by that I can pay to babysit for a change, but it's a bit of a hassle to have to pick her up if Tim is gone as I then have to drag this kids with me to get her and bring her home.
Anyway, enough of all that. I think my brain has finally slowed down a little at least. I don't know how long it will be until you get another post. With my track record, my next words to you may be a birth announcement....!!
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