Friday, March 07, 2008

Thoughts

I'm not sure if I've admitted this here before, but I like online forums. I'm currently a member of one that is a group of women who've all had babies in September. We started at the beginning of our pregnancies, and have continued on. It is difficult for me to explain to people, including my husband, how much I appreciate having a place to go to ask questions about babies, vent about life, and generally share conversation with other women who are at about the same point in life that I am.

But that's not really the point of this post. Where I'm going with this is, today I was reading the blog of one of the women who I met on this forum, and she has inspired me to write today, if not more frequently all together. Not that there was anything in particular that she wrote that made me think of something specific to write; just that it made me feel like writing...about something...

It is not easy for me to always find the words to say the thoughts that are running through my head.

Maybe the problem is that there are too many thoughts in my head. Or maybe it is that my thoughts aren't always thoughts, but a mix of emotions, sensations, experiencing life by just taking it in instead of analyzing with words...my husband would probably discount this by saying that my mind never stops moving. This is true, but just because my mind is moving doesn't always mean it is thinking in complete sentences.

All that aside, I do find it rather cathartic to make the effort to put into words the thoughts in my head. And so I sit here with my coffee, thinking...

I am thinking about that stupid dog next door that barks endlessly. I am thinking about how great it is that Reuben has slept through the night for two nights in a row now, and how even greater it is that he is having a two hour nap this morning. (Hurray!!) I am thinking about how my home daycare thing is really starting to take off - I've got one girl lined up to start full-time care in September, and two other mothers interested in starting part-time care soon...they come for interviews next week. I am thinking about how awesome God is, how He continues to provide for us even when there are times I can't see how He might possibly get us the money we need to pay the bills, He comes through. I am thinking about how I love being a mother, at home all day with my son, even though sometimes it gets boring, but then I realize how much I sometimes love boredom, because it means that I'm on my own schedule, and I can choose to not be bored by doing something I actually want to do.

Those are my thoughts today...I could go on...I could always go on...as Tim says, my brain never stops...but I think Reuben is finally waking up from his nap, and he needs to be fed...so off I go, until the next time I decide to pour out my thoughts...

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hey, ok so I have to admit that I do know what your talking about, the idea that lots of stuff is going around in your head but its not always in complete sentence or even complete thought patterns. I think that my brain is usually just a jumble and I fake trying to sound like I know what I'm talking about (I'm rambling, sorry). Good to know I'm not alone. Aunt Patty

Eric and Emily B. said...

Awesome thoughts!! I understand what you mean, sometimes I think that thoughts are so random they are hard to express online.
Oh and I love my online friends.
You should check out xanga some time, its similar to the blogger, but its so much easier to make friends with the blogrings that keep those in similar moments in common. I have met so many awesome Christian women on there and I've even met one. There are a few Canadian women that I just love on there too. Check it out some time. If you do join my web address is xanga.com/lovedme4me.

Anonymous said...

We love you too Marleah! We have something very special on our September board. Its something I never could have imagined when I began posting during our pregnancies. I never thought I could feel so close to a group of women that I've never met! Just wanted to stop in and say hi!

Anonymous said...

I forgot to sign my comment LOL!
~Amy (mom2marley)

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